I've always been someone who likes to plan ahead and have an exit plan/strategy just in case shit hits the fan and I don't want to be around to deal with it. This applies for everything: school, parents, girl drama, and relationships. My exit strategies always came in handy and I never had trouble coming up with one because I kind of always knew what to expect. But, after graduation and pretty much freefalling into this world called "responsibility"... I've been nothing but screwed without an exit plan. I keep "going with the flow" and dealing with things as they come. That has NOT served me well... I've been seriously depressed and hurt by this method. I'm trying to come up with backup plans but it's hard when I don't have much knowledge in this situation and how to handle it.
People used to give me shit about having a backup plan... well, you know what... they weren't in my shoes getting hurt or taken advantage of. I'm sorry I didn't have everything handed to me you fuckin prick.