Tips for My Male Readers

I wasn't really aware of this.. but I have guys who read my blog! lol

So, I'm going to start adding more entries that can possibly help out guys as well. Today, the topic is about "Chivalry"

Opening Doors
Guys, I know it's not the 1800s, but for some of you, would it kill you to open the door for us? We're not lazy or weak so we can open our own doors, but it's the thought that counts! Car doors are a nice gesture but you don't have to do it, however, when going into a restaurant or store that doesn't have automatic sliding doors.. please hold it open for us once in a while.

Paying the Check
OK.. this is a bit of a grey area and I understand that. I HIGHLY recommend on a first date, whether the girl or you initiated the date, that the guy at least OFFER to pay for the whole check. You don't have to be completely insistent on it, but you should at least offer. This only applies at like restaurant settings, so getting coffee or something that casual.. you can go dutch. Now ladies, NEVER EVER expect the guy to pay for the whole bill, especially everytime you guys go out. Why? Well, because there are going to be times when the guy never offers to pay except for his portion, and also you come off looking like a greedy bitch.

In general, I think girls like chivalry not because we're anti-feminists or because we can't do anything on our own. No. We adore it when guys exhibit chivalry because it shows he's being thoughtful of us, and not treating us like we're some homeless person he's never met. So you guys don't always have to jump to open doors, or go broke trying to impress us... but a nice gesture here and there goes a LONG way.. especially in bed :)